Having read through many posts, ghosting appears intolerable. a guy going through a rubberband moment is tolerable. Where is the line between a rubberband moment and ghosting scenario? How long should I give him before writing him off? Would you write him off if he picks up again after one, two, three weeks? Or just go about slotting him in for a date if he asks? This is Rubber band effect dating ghosting nor I guess, but would appreciate some views on what length of time is acceptable for guys to slip in and out during the early phases of dating?
I see that he is still
Rubber band effect dating in to the online dating site, which is fair enough.
So probably busy exercising his other options. A man going into rubber band land will follow up in a few days…he will miss you…your absence makes him fonder for you…. What you do in either situation is move about your life…you should be dating yourself first and foremost anyway…. What I would do in this situation is not care at all… Whether it is 1 or 2 or 3 weeks, does not matter…. Rubber band effect dating more than three days is cause for concern.
Rubber band effect dating have been ghosted. Yes, I would definitely write him off at this point if I were you. To me, even if Rubber band effect dating was on a business trip, someone with a high level of interest would have at least sent you a text.
No guy wants a connection to die by ignoring someone for a week, business trip or no. I know this is little comfort to you. Unfortunately…and I have seen it over and over again in the time I have spent on this forum…the guy going on a business trip is often the preamble to a ghosting.
Maybe they say that as an excuse to stop contact and do a fade out? Perhaps they lose interest on the trip?
This is what normal people would do? Not hard at all. You said he went on a business trip for a week after your 3rd date? He is dating others and put you on the back burner. Some men are so Rubber band effect dating, you see. And to answer your question how to decide? Use normal human behaviour standards.
It is not hard. Would he do it to his boss? His sister in law? If the answer is no, Rubber band effect dating know where things are. I agree with Maria. Someone who is interested in you and wants to spend time with you woulndt risk Rubber band effect dating have such a huge gap in communication.
I am going through a similar situation, and I am not settling for anything like that…. Just because someone is going on a trip doesnt mean you cut ties, can call and you can text Rubber band effect dating not that hard.
Just take it for what it is, and do Rubber band effect dating reach out to him. I would think twice in Rubber band effect dating him a chance if he appears out of the blue and expects things to just pick up where you guys left.
But thanks for interpreting that in a way that gives you an excuse to go off on me.
I wonder how many of these business trips are real and how many are the guy making an excuse to fade? Saying that, I would always give someone the benefit of the doubt. Not to mention if they Rubber band effect dating you, they want to be in touch with you. He had 3 dates with you, and in his head, is still a having fun stage and a relationship at Rubber band effect dating, which he was right about….
On the trip Rubber band effect dating had time to cool down and maybe realized he was not that interested after all, and contact any more…. If you remain silent, there is a better chance that he might got curious and becOme interest again, but know for now he is not interested anymore….
I have to say this is WAY too common on here to be a coincidence! Or is it an easy excuse to fade out and not have to contact or meet up for awhile? That is what ghosting is.
Rubber band effect dating disappearing after a few dates. This happens ALL the time.
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